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After-Burn
From Melody Beattie: “How could I do it? How could I say it? Even though I meant it, I still feel ashamed, guilty, and afraid.” This is a...
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Mar 28, 20232 min read


Setting Our Own Course
From Melody Beattie: We are powerless over other people’s expectations of us. We cannot control what others want, what they expect, or...
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Feb 20, 20231 min read


Valentine's Day
From Melody Beattie: For children, Valentine’s Day means candy hearts, silly cards, and excitement in the air. How different Valentine’s...
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Feb 14, 20231 min read


Rejecting Shame
From Melody Beattie: Shame can be a powerful force in our life. It is the trademark of dysfunctional families. Authentic, legitimate...
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Feb 3, 20232 min read


Clearing the Slate
From Melody Beattie: One of the greatest gifts we can give is an open, loving heart. And holding on to negative feelings from past...
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Jan 26, 20231 min read


Appreciating Our Past
From Melody Beattie: It is easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at ourselves and...
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Jan 25, 20231 min read


Overthinking Is a Waste
Overthinking is the biggest waste of human energy. Trust yourself, make a decision, and gain more experience. There is no such thing as...
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Jan 24, 20231 min read


"Observe the Urge:" Rational Recovery for Binge Eating
"Greg called and said he was running late, so I was left alone to eat. After I finished a normal-sized meal and some dessert, I began...
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Jan 23, 20233 min read


Implementation Intentions
A free science-based tool from PositivePsychology.com illustrating how to more effectively reach goals and change habits:...
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Jan 6, 20231 min read


Intrusive Thoughts and Compulsions in OCD
From Nathan Peterson, LCSW: Are the constant thoughts getting to you lately? You're not alone. But there is hope! Those recurring,...
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Dec 23, 20221 min read


How to Deal with Intrusive Thoughts
The truth is that thoughts are neither good nor bad: they just “are.” They are neutral. They are meaningless… until you give them...
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Dec 21, 20221 min read


Observational Yoga Study
Link: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3099096/ "The relaxation response after yoga may offer the ability to face the...
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Dec 14, 20221 min read


Asking for Help
From Melody Beattie: It’s okay to ask for help. One of the most absurd things we do to ourselves is not asking for the help we need from...
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Dec 13, 20222 min read


Valuing Our Needs
From Melody Beattie: When we don’t ask for what we want and need, we discount ourselves. We deserve better. Maybe others taught us it...
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Dec 12, 20221 min read


Clarity
"First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do." -Epictetus
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Dec 9, 20221 min read


Risk is Necessary
"If you don't take risks, nothing will change." -@soulwords._
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Dec 8, 20221 min read


Letting Go
From Melody Beattie: “How much do we need to let go of?” a friend asked one day. “I’m not certain,” I replied, “but maybe everything.”...
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Dec 7, 20222 min read


For Those Struggling with Self-Doubt and Shame
My thoughts and my feelings matter. My thoughts and my feelings matter. My thoughts and my feelings matter. My thoughts and my feelings...
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Dec 6, 20221 min read


Developing Healthy Tolerance
From Melody Beattie: Many of us are skilled at denying and discounting what hurts us. We may endure a particular situation, telling...
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Dec 5, 20222 min read


Putting Our Life on Hold
From Melody Beattie: We cannot afford to put our needs on hold, waiting for another person to fulfill us, make our life better, or come...
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Dec 2, 20222 min read
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